Paul Constantine my husband, best friend, sole mate, and the father of our children Charlie,Oliver,Alexander and Emily. 16 Years I was with Paul, not all smooth sailing, but then what is.. We were from different worlds, but similar in so many ways. His Words were to describe us" a toff, and a farmers daughter:-) ", after only a few months together it came clear that he wanted to fill the entire garden with animals, (my worst nightmare), i thought I had escaped the country life, when I met my Londoner.. We worked hard, and we enjoyed our secluded country life, , then we were blessed with our four children, One day out of the blue I will never forget, the words "Darling, lets go to Cyprus, I've had enough", I thought for a holiday, but no a complete life style change. I thought he was mad,it was a scary decision, we then spent 2 years as a family, spending more time together as a family unit, then we ever had in the Uk. Unfortunately during our time in Cyprus Paul was diagonised with Pancreatic Cancer in September 2009. In October 2009, he had Life saving surgery in the UK to remove the tumor, it was a success., and we went back to Cyprus to have the chemo treatment, in May 2010, we were told that the chemo had been a success. October 2010, we had the devesating news it had come back, Paul came back to the UK in November, to start Radiotherapy, this was the worst time of my life, The children and I returned on the 1st December. He battled on so bravely, always worrying what other people were going through and worrying about there pain, always putting himself last. Unfortunately his battle ended on the 11th March 2011 at home with his family around him. I know he is always with us, watching and guiding xxxxxx